Story added: 12th September 2022

Sebastian Donoghue shares his difficult story and why NCS means so much to him

Over the summer months, National Citizen Service (NCS) has been delivering projects and activities designed to support and progress 15 to 17-year-olds in the next stage of their lives. From residential camps to volunteering, the programme provides a chance to enjoy an array of exciting and proactive workshops.

One participant who encompassed what NCS is all about, is Sebastian Donoghue. Sebastian has faced many adversities in his life, but has bounced back every time and relished the opportunity to develop his skills with NCS this summer.

Sebastian, 16, who is now moving into Sixth Form, has undiagnosed dwarfism which has brought on its own set of challenges physically, emotionally, and socially. Sebastian has also recently come out as a trans-male to both his family and friends, and whilst this has been received well by both, making a transition can bring on its own set of complexities.

Unfortunately for Sebastian and his family, during such an important stage of his life, his father passed away with cancer back in January this year.

This coupled with his own personal difficulties and studying for GCSEs meant he has faced a lot of stress during his final year at High School, so having a fun-filled summer break was of paramount importance.

Like many, Sebastian was initially nervous and shy when starting the NCS summer programme. The prospect of meeting new people was scary but branching out and pushing his limits is exactly why he signed up to NCS.

This summer proved to be the fun, yet challenging summer he had initially envisioned. Activities such as rock climbing, kayaking and paddle boarding allowed Sebastian to test his limits and to step out of his comfort zone.

Another important component of joining NCS for Sebastian was to make friends along the way, and as he came out of his shell he was able to do just that. Sebastian would use his soft skills and friendly personality to positively contribute to workshops and activities, which were received well by his new friends.

Both NCS coordinators and his peers recognised Sebastian’s progress throughout the week and presented him with a well-deserved ‘Star of the Week’ award.

Sebastian’s mother has seen the direct impact NCS has had on her child.

“NCS has provided Sebastian a safe space to develop in ways that cannot be gained the same way in Schools. His independence, confidence, social skills, and problem solving have all improved this summer. In fact, his newfound skills and confidence have made him want to volunteer with NCS when he turns 18.”

If you are interested, or know someone who may be interested in signing up for our NCS programme then follow the booking link here for NCS Summer or one of our other yearly programmes.